Haydennet.com

Joe's Bear Cave

Click here if you were already given know the password for the adult-content portion. You will want to bookmark THIS page because beyond this point the URL will change. IF YOU ARE ON A MACINTOSH COMPUTER using an operation system prior to OS X, THIS MAY NOT WORK.

THIS IS A PERSONAL SITE AND IT IS FREE!

To obtain password (which will change periodically and which will NOT be granted on the basis of your appearance, but rather how honestly I feel you have answered my questions), I ask that you EMAIL me in Spanish, English, Italian, Portuguese or French with the queries below. At least fill out the mandatory ones (in green) so that I know SOMETHING about you and can stay in touch with you. Most of the questions are optional, as indicated, but will also help me to get to know my new friends better if you have the time or desire.

Full Name (you know mine and knowing your full name makes it easier for me to find you in my address book)
Date, Month and Year Birth - Only adults will receive a response. Please make sure to SPELL OUT the month rather than use xx/xx/xx because some countries put month first and some put date first. I would not know if 3/9/65 is March 9 or September 3.
City (and neighborhood if a big city)
State/Province
Country (if not USA)
Email address(es)
How did you come into contact with me or find this site originally?
Specific Relationship Status
If not from my San Francisco area, are you visiting any time in the future?
If you have not already provided me with at least one, attach at least one clear, recent, frontal face picture (without sunglasses) or specific URLs to your profiles with same. You can, of course, send me more pictures of yourself or links to pictures of any type.
Mac or PC (this will help me give you the correct method for accessing the site if you have an O/S prior to O/S X on the Mac)

The following are only the OPTIONAL questions, so please don't email me complaining about how many questions I am REQUIRING.

Optional: Your statistics (American measurements please).
Optional: Languages you speak.
Optional: What you do for a living and/or what do you want to do or have achieved not just degree-wise but in any way you consider yourself a success.
Optional: Your Chat ID's (Yahoo, ICQ, MSN, AOL/AIM) -- When giving MSN make sure to give me your whole email address on there.
Optional: Do you have profiles on any gay or bear sites?
Optional: Your birth order. Many have asked what this means. It does not mean your astrological sign, but rather among your siblings in what order were you born.
Optional: Place where you have lived besides where you are now.
Optional: Your ethnicities and/or nationality (which of course are not necessarily the same).
Optional: Political ideology.
Optional: Theology, if any.
Optional: Are you a photographer/artist? Are your works online or do you share them electronically?
Optional: Age that you came out to yourself and/or to others, if you are out.
Optional: Do you have or want children?
Optional: Do you use any substances (tobacco, alcohol, etc.)?
Optional: Phone numbers. Please indicate if you text/SMS.
Optional: If you want to give more than your city and state, feel free to give me your snail mail address or cross-streets.
Optional: Are there any other parts of the world you want to live in or visit?
Optional: People we know in common. While it is not comprehensive, I do have a friends section on my site. The people are there by request so of course you can be as well, although by and large I have physically met.
Optional: Do you have a web site where you would like reciprocal links or banner exchange with my personal site or my business site Ursinet.com. Obviously let me know if you want help registering a domain, setting up a site or of course HOSTING your site with me.
Optional: The interests we have in common based on this web site.

NOTE: I DO NOT post pictures of people on my site who I don't know personally and I would not do so without their consent. I always respond to email that is identifiable as legitimate, even if it takes me some time. If you do not hear from me within a few days, feel free to email me back and double-check to make sure you answered all the mandatory questions.

NO ONE is forcing you to answer these questions to get a FREE password to see private pages on MY web site. Thanks guys!

PLEASE NOTE: I DEFINITELY DO NOT post pictures of people who email me without permission. In fact, people on my web site are those who I have met and have asked to be put on my site. I get email from every continent on the globe regarding this site. I believe I have always responded to ever piece of email I get from this site, but sometimes I don't get to them within several days. If you do not hear from me, feel free to email me back and make sure you answered all the mandatory questions. I really love to hear from you!


	*Online since June 1997!*