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My Personal Timeline

  • 1937 Andrew Charles Hayden Born
  • 1939 Floyd William Hayden born
  • 194? divorce between Andy and Mary
  • 194? marriage of Andy and June
  • 1942 Pina born in Catanzaro, Italia (where my Mom is from -- the sole of the boot -- Calabria)
  • 1963 Pina meets Bill
  • 1967 Pin and Bill marry in Italy
  • 1968 San Pedro, California I was born
  • late 68 or early 69 moved to Sardinia
  • Sardegna, Italia (where my little brother was born on 10-3-70)
  • Grandmother Mary Moore Hayden Stief died 1970 (from smoking age 50)
  • Moved to Hayward, California house baught about September 1971
  • (my sister was born on 10-3-71 in Oakland)
  • February 1972 Pina and Bill 6-year anniversary in Hawaii
  • 1975-1977 Moved to Torella di Mongri (Outside of Barcelona, Spain) in Catalonia by the Pyrenees 1975-1977 (Dictator Franco died when we were there)
  • Governor's Island, New York (in New York Harbor) Feb. 1977 - June 1980
  • California Trip 1978? (when Elvis died)
  • Italy Trip 1979? (Dad's last trip there)
  • Hayward, California again (June 1980- Jan. 1986)
  • Union City/Fremont, California (Jan. 1986-July 1988)
  • August 1988 Dad had a quintuple bypass because of his smoking
  • September 1988 Dad resumes smoking
  • Moved to Staten Island, New York (July 1988-March 1993)
  • Married City Hall, Manhattan 7-14-89
  • California Trip July 1989
  • September 1989 started College of Staten Island/City University of New York
  • California Trip July 1990
  • Dad dies 11-20-90 California Trip due to smoking (age 50)
  • Step-Grandmother June Warner Hayden died 7-9-91 (from smoking)
  • California Trip July 1991 Five Year High School Reunion
  • Paris, France October 1991
  • Alexandra Monique Hayden Born 4-20-92
  • California Trip June 1992
  • Grampa Andrew Jackson Hayden died late July 1992 (having smoked earlier in life and chewed tobacco until his death and having suffered strokes)
  • Wife finds biological parents through Portland, Oregon phone book after watching "Roots"
  • Italy Trip 8-92
  • Cousin of wife (first biological relative contact) visits us in New York 8-92
  • Oregon & California Trip 1-93 (wife meets biological father and many other relatives on both sides, but mother refuses to see her)
  • February 1993 Accepted to Brooklyn Law School
  • Carroll Gardens, Brooklyn, New York (March 1993-1999)
  • Graduate College June 1993
  • California Trip June 1993
  • Oregon & California Trip January 1994 (wife meets biological mother finally, we drive down to Bay Area)
  • California Trip June 1994 (sister Sabina graduates college)
  • Oregon Trip July 1994 for Loving Family Reunion
  • France & Italy Trip July-August 1994
  • October 1994 Wife splits
  • January 1995 Meet lover named Mike Suchovicki
  • January 1995 Litigation for custody begins
  • July 1995 California Trip
  • January 1996 California Trip
  • May 1996 Chicago Trip BP96
  • June 1996 Break up with Mike
  • July 1996 Minneapolis Trip for GLPCI
  • August 1996 Get Back together with Mike
  • October 1996 Washington, D.C. GLPCI
  • Mike splits October 1996
  • October 1996 California Trip for Ten-Year High School Reunion
  • November 1996 Washington, D.C. for weekend
  • February 1997 San Francisco for IBR
  • Two more Spring Trips San Francisco
  • Chicago for BP97
  • June 1997 graduated law school
  • 1997 July Philadelphia for GLPCI
  • Boston August 1997
  • Italy August 1997
  • Chicago GLPCI Board Meeting September 1997
  • Columbus for Wedding of Gene Baugh September 1997
  • Orlando for Bear Bust October 1997
  • Mississippi/New Orleans for GLPCI Board Meeting January 1998
  • Chicago for GLPCI Meeting April 1998
  • Chicago for Bear Pride May 1998
  • Provincetown for Family Week August 1998
  • California for my sister's wedding September 1998
  • Washington, DC for Board meeting April-May 1999
  • Chicago for Bear Pride May 1999
  • Provincetown for Family Week August 1999
  • New Orleans for Decadence, September 1999
  • October 1999 moved to 13th Street in Park Slope
  • Washington, DC for www.mmow.org in April 2000
  • Chicago for Bear Pride May 2000
  • New Orleans for Board meeting, June 2000
  • February 2000 met Eric Angelucci
  • March 2000 moved to 14th Street in Park Slope
  • Provincetown for Family Week July-August 2000
  • Dallas April 2001 for TBRU
  • July 2001 Dallas to drive back with James Martin
  • Alex went to Italy by herself in July 2001
  • Provincetown August 2001
  • Provincetown August 2002
  • Dec 2002 Callifornia for Mom's 60th Birthday
  • Bear Pride 2003 (?) in Chicago
  • Provincetown August 2003
  • Provincetown August 2004
  • May 2005 met Josh Weishaar
  • July-August 2005 went to Italy, Spain & France with Alex and Tony
  • January 2006 went to CA with Josh and Alex
  • October 2006 went to California with Snowball
  • August 2006 went to Italy with Josh (Alex went for two months)
  • October 2006 moved to 97th Street
  • January 2007 went to CA with Josh and Alex
  • April 2007 moved to California
  • June 2007 Josh joined me in California
  • October 2007 moved to Castro Valley